Hi,
I have not visited the site for some time, but saw your post and thought I would respond to you.
I had my surgery, last May, in Cleveland at University Hospital with Dr. Megerian and Dr. Selman. I could not ask for a better team. I interviewed 10 specialists before making my decision. I consulted in Rochester, NY (where I live), Cincinnati and Cleveland. In Cincinnati I consulted with Drs. Pensak and Theodosopolous I looked in Cleveland and Cincinnati because I have familly in both cities and could stay with a family member after leaving the hospital.
You are close enough to Cincinnati and Cleveland to get consultations with any of the above doctors, and if at all possible, I would suggest you try to see them. Drs Pensak, and Megerian would be the ones to start with (Drs. Theodosopolous and Selman are the Neurosurgeons they work with respectively).
My tumor was 3cm and pressing against my brain stem. The doctors removed 95% of the tumor - what was left is around my facial nerve (we had discussed, prior to surgery, that my facial nerve was to be preserved). I did have some balance issues, but physical therapy has corrected that. I still am tentative when on unfamiliar/rough terrain or waliking in the dark.
I lost most of the hearing in my right ear (AN ear). SSD has been a bother to me, especially directional sound. After much research I decided to get a BAHA and went back to Dr. Megerian/University Hospital on December 19th for the BAHA implant. I will get the processor in mid-March. I have had not issues from this implant - no headache, no problems with the surgical site.
Best of luck to your mom.
Ceci