Concerned:
Your husbands symptoms are almost 'classic' for an acoustic neuroma. As Steve (
'sgerrard') mentioned, each AN patient usually manifests symptoms a bit differently. One reason is due to the fact that AN's grow in different directions and at different rates. Some sit almost dormant then begin a growth 'spurt' that brings on symptoms seemingly 'out of the blue'. Your husband's symptoms seem to be within the normal range and mirror many of my own symptoms (loss of taste, dizziness, numb tongue). I'm sure other posters will say the same.
At 3 cm, your husband's AN is very near the maximum size for radiation treatment, but that is a decision for a radiology oncologist to make. Although non-invasive, radiation treatment is not risk-free. Surgery is obviously more complicated and requires a hospital stay - usually 3 -5 days if no complications arise - and also carries risks, as all surgery does. There simply is no
'EASY' button to push when it comes to AN treatment. I would caution you and your husband to be very discriminating as to the surgeon you use, if surgery becomes your choice or only option. The surgeon's experience in operating on acoustic neuromas is vital to having a good chance for a positive outcome. I maintain that 400 AN surgeries should be the minimum level of experience for a surgeon. I would also ask what kind of outcomes this doctor has had with his AN surgical patients.
You and your husband may also wish to consider a two-stage treatment of his AN, as I had. The neurosurgeon debulked the AN. Hollowed it out and cut off it's blood supply. Then, after a 3-month 'rest period', I underwent FSR to kill the AN's DNA and prevent it from re-growing. It worked. This approach spares possible nerve damage (my surgeon used a nerve monitoring assistant, flown in from out-of-town) and has had excellent results where employed, as far as I know. My recovery was swift and near-total, and I had a large AN (4.5 cm). On this basis and as a patient, not a physician, I highly recommend surgery and radiation.
Ultimately, it will be your husband's decision - with your input and support, of course. There is much AN information available on this website as well as elsewhere online. I suggest you utilize it - and please consider consulting with more than one surgeon. Remember, no matter what any doctor says, your husband will have to live with the results of his treatment (surgery and/or radiation) and no doctor can guarantee the outcome. So, it's up to you both to be as cautious and discerning as possible as you choose a treatment and doctor to perform it. We want the best for your husband and we're here to help any way we can. Please stay connected.
Jim