Thanks Jan,
I am trying to take all of this in and not act on emotion. I have a couple of PMs to people here in Denver about other doctors they went to for second opinions. Some felt comfortable with the doc I went to see today, and some didn't. I think I will feel more comfortable at this point to have another visit with my AN doctor so I can try to put the pieces of the puzzle together. The balance test last week did not get to the doc today, and I don't know the results of that test. Also, this doc today doesn't use GK, and I am wondering if he uses old technology. Sounds like he leans more toward surgery, and to be honest with my tiny AN I don't think surgery is a good option for me. Plus for me, surgery doesn't feel right to me in my gut so I'm trying to go with that gut feeling. I don't have a gut feeling about radiation and W & W at this time.
Taking chances seems like the key to me also because whatever I do or don't do I will have to live with it. And as the doctor said today, it is not malignant at this point. It is good to hear that, but at times it sort of downplays the fact that hearing and other issues are involved, and that is important to me. I don't think it is fair to compare someone with an AN to someone who has a malignant tumor. It is not apples to apples. Thanks for your input.
Nancy