Hi, Emcee:
Welcome to the forum, which I'm pleased to learn you've found useful.
Your husband's AN falls into the 'large' category so surgery would normally be indicated. I'm rather surprised that follow-up radiation is not being planned because 'debulking' simply reduces the tumor mass and cuts off it's blood supply. The usual procedure, as I understand it, is to then use radiation to kill the remaining tumor cells, preventing any future growth. This is what I experienced with my 4.5 cm AN (see my signature at the bottom of the post). I'm happy to report that it worked out quite successfully. However, I'm sure your husband's doctors are doing what they deem best in his case and I certainly have no intention of questioning them.
As previously noted, 3 to 6 months is a fairly protracted timeframe for AN surgery recovery but I would guess that the doctor is simply giving you the most conservative estimate, as a precaution. Better to expect to be 6 months in recovery and only need a month or two than to expect to be recovered in a month and need five or six. Actually,
'recovery' can be a relative term with AN's. Many of us were well enough to resume our normal activities with a few weeks of having surgery but in reality, full recovery takes a fairly long time. I recovered very quickly (resumed driving within 2 weeks of surgery - with my surgeon's permission) and thought I was pretty much fully recovered. But now, two years post-op, I still have a few very minor residual effects from the AN that may not ever entirely disappear but I feel far closer to 'normal' than I did a few weeks after my surgery. However, as we often say around here (because its true)
'every AN patient is different' and one person's experience, good or not-so-good, doesn't reliably predict what another AN patient will experience, especially when we're discussing recovery timeframes. Still, I would expect more like 3 to 6
weeks for recovery rather than 3 to 6
months. I hope I'm right.
Thanks for posting and I hope this forum (and others) will continue to be a resource for you and your husband as you travel on your 'AN Journey'. I wish you both the very best.
Jim