Hi Zoe,
Just wanted to drop you a line and give you an update...I have scheduled a surgery with Dr. Fukushima on 9/26. I spoke with a woman who had her surgery with him several years ago, and that conversation was such a relief. She couldn't come up with enough superlatives to describe him. Dr. Fukushima is apparently one of the top neurosurgeons in the world, so I'm much more at ease with the whole thing. I'm no longer worried about all the things I've read which could happen during, or as a result of, surgery...except the balance issue - which is unavoidable no matter who your surgeon is, or which surgery you choose, since the vestibular nerve is always going to have to be severed.
In regards to the discussion we were having about getting conflicting opinions - I've spoken with at least 4 neurosurgeons/treatment centers, and I've gotten recommendations for middle fossa, retrosigmoid, and radiosurgery. Each of these recommendations were from very respected institutions (House Ear Institute, UPMC, MD Anderson, McElveen at Duke, and Fukushima). Not only were each of those treatments recommended to me, but nearly all of them recommended against the other options! One would recommended Middle Fossa, and strongly advised AGAINST radiosurgery. Another would recommended retrosigmoid, and strongly advised AGAINST Middle Fossa (and radiosurgery).
In the end, it came down to the research I had done and what I was comfortable with. And one of the things that really has stuck with me throughout the research is that your choice of surgeon means everything. If you have an excellent surgeon, it is at least as important as the surgical approach you choose. Of course, part of what makes your surgeon the right one is not only that he's very well respected, but also that he's done a LOT of AN surgeries. That's really KEY. Make sure the one you choose has done A LOT of them.
I hope you're doing well, and that your research and decision-making process is going smoothly.
~Lisa