Mona
In my opinion, you are in the most difficult phase of dealing with an Acoustic Neuroma. The gathering of facts and options can seem overwhelming. I know it was for me, at times. I went through AN diagnosis and treatment twice. First in 2002, and then again just 5 weeks ago. This forum....for both venting my frustration and anger at my AN, and gathering information about my options, was a godsend. Keep in mind, the reason you are getting different direction from doctors is because it is called a "medical opinion". With opinions, they can all look at the same film and render a different opinion about treatment. Keep asking as many doctors as possible what they would do in your situation. I had a list of questions that I took to every team so that I was somewhat consistent in what I asked and I wrote down the answers to compare them. At the end of the day, my gut told me what to do and who to do it with. It was just the right decision for me. Please keep venting your specific questions to this forum. Many people have asked and answered the same questions you have. Poke around this forum and look for issues that are relevant to you. You will find great comfort in the others who have gone before you. Eventually, you will know what is right for you. Let me know if I can help.
All the best,
Kathleen