Jen,
I am late getting in here and just wanted you to know that I'm praying for you- you've had quite a lot to deal with and I just love your spirit. I'm also glad you are getting a second opinion.
Enjoy your Pandora bracelet. My daughter bought me one after I was first diagnosed with 3 beads. One was her birthstone, one was the "journey" bead (for the journey we were about to take together), and the 3rd was a bead that had a bunch hearts on it that I attached a meaning of "friends and family" to. I've since just about filled it up, but those original 3 beads will always be the focal point and always brings me back to how lucky I am to have such a wonderful daughter, friends, and family!!!
I can't imagine a more perfect gift for you - the beads are wonderful and you can build something that is very special to you. What a great husband!!!
Take good care,
Kathy