I only asked because you are far prettier in real life than in your Forum picture. Hope you get a new boss soon. You don't look fat, you look quite striking.
I forgot to mention another way you might have known who I was. I took a bad fall the evening before the symposium and the area above my upper lip looked as though I had some hideous, leprous, disgusting sore. It was the superglue that they use in ERs now instead of stitches. Luckily my days of excrutiating vanity are over--so much so that I forget that I have the thing until I see someone's eyes drift down while they try to suppress a slight twinge of disgust curling their upper lip.
Soon I will have to wear a band-aid to protect it from the sun. That, too, will be lovely. I, again, won't care much. I will wish I didn't have it when I sing at my niece's wedding Sunday, though.
Sharon