Hi Bonnie & welcome
I don't spend as much time here as I use to when I was first diagnosed. The board is tremendously helpful, knowledgeable and wise. I was a bit overwhelmed at first, but with the influx of info, I also learned a lot, and made a decision based on all the input and have found great peace in this benign thingy.
I too am a mom of three boys (5,3,2) as well as my girl (7) - I am a bit longer toothed than you, still 37 years old for a few more months.
Out of curiosity, is the tumor 1 inch or 1 cm - most tumors are measured in cm (or in my case mm). I am Canadian so metric is pretty close to home but no so familiar in the US. [1 inch = 2.2 cm]
Good luck with your research - the right option for you will become apparent.
I am watch n'wait as the tumor is so small, and I am asymptomatic save hearing loss (mild) and tinnitus. I am confident, possibly over confident, I will stay watch n'wait for several more years but I am very lucky the tumor is so small.
Ann