Hi Nikki
Welcome - I am a Toronto girl, west end. I am very lucky and only have a very small, pretty much asymptomatic tumor (save tinnitus and hearing loss, mild at this point). So, I am just waiting & watching - I am blessed.
I am being monitored by an awesome team at the University Health Network (Toronto General for the ENT but also saw the GK team and the neurosurgeon who are both at Toronto Western ... the MRIs are done at Princess Margaret so I cover off the whole 'network'. I have really like most of the team. Overall, a great team of professionals. And, to save some face for the Ontario health system, it took me less than 10 days to get a MRI which is pretty darn awesome!
Good luck with your research. Based on the doctor's I have met, I feel no reason to go to the US for treatment - I think we have some of the best in the world. I, of course, can only comment on the doctors in Toronto, many of whom are associated with the U of Toronto medical school. There is nothing second rate about any of the professionals I have met. But, it does take longer to get treatment, especially if not urgent (like my tumor).
You will meet many ontario types on the forum (not sure how many police officers) and many working moms with many kidlets (I have four).
also ... check your benefits, you may be surprised to find out it is a covered condition in your 'critical illness policy'. I find out on Tuesday or Wednesday if my tumor will be covered (the preliminary message is YES as my policy specifically includes cranial nerve benign tumors, even without pathology reports or surgery).
Ann