....Hello:
I had the same size and opted for surgery as I was told after 5 opinions that getting rid of the thing was best for my own mental health. I was also 55 then.
In my case I went to Dr. Brackman, was out of the hospital on the 5th day, and stayed at the New Otani Hotel to recover alone!!! I took a spa day at Ole Henrikson of Denmark, a day trip to see all of Hollywood and was back home on day 8 and back to work on day 14. I am a medical professional and cannot speak more highly of anyone than Dr. Brackman.
I had Anthem/BC and out there it is called something else but my insurance covered it and he took whatever they paid.
Because these are so rare, I agree that you do need someone who has experience and he told me he does 3 per day. He also teaches and the neuro was Dr. Schwartz,
send him your actual film from radiology, not the disk, he will review and call you...be prepared that it is usually in the evening due to time delay...depending where you live.
My personal opinion is to get on with your life and be rid of it...
You should do what he advises. I also went to Yale, NYU and spoke with another Dr. King in LA...Dr.Brackman just relaxed me and had the most experience...of those I encountered.
I am not 58, have had no problems, no paralysis,and he did not shave my head....huge relief per my request, but most important to me was knowing it was finally out...not one Dr. recommended radiation for my age.
Really, other than getting used to the loss on one side which I only notice when driving Thur a bank drive up or trying to write with my right hand and talk on the phone with my left ear (which I can't) I am OK....
O really look better people say and I think just knowing it is gone relaxed me.
I know the never say never, but we could get hit crossing the street too.
I don't think about it anymore and the freaking out stopped once it was gone.
I gained an appreciation of life, re evaluated and am working in the US, and Paris, travel as much as possible and just want to downsize and enjoy what life I have.
I asked a 95 yr old patient of mine what she would change or advise me on life.
She said worrry is a waste of time and changes nothing and men come and go as do friends....to live life and enjoy it.
Best of Luck to You.