Hello mjminer – Please, please, please be patient! It does take a while, for some it takes longer.
I had my surgery exactly 3 months ago and I had facial paralysis three days after surgery, I used to look at the mirror everyday hoping to see a total nerve come back until my doctor said it would be better for me to think it would be a matter of months, so being thankful for my overall results, I decided just to do that. Today, I still don’t blink and my paralysis has improved some. People tell me I look better, I have the freaky eye look, my lower eyelid is working better and I can do a little bit of pulling on my lip when I try to smile.
I have been told by friends and family to chew gum, get acupuncture or massage my face. I tried chewing gum and massaging it, it made it more painful by the next day. Dr. Slattery at House told me “Do Nothing,†he and all the team there believe it can take up to a year before they suggest anything else. They believe the nerve will come back by itself. Easy to say but hard to do for us the patients because we get so frustrated with it. Last night for the first time I cried, because I felt tired of this condition, but I really need to keep praying for patience and to be thankful this is the worse I need to deal with today. Just by ready the postings in this forum I realize how thankful I have to be.
Hang in there, it will happen, focus on your life, continue living and don’t look too much at the mirror and everyday look for something to be thankful about, you’ll feel better that way.
Remember to practice this....be patient and be thankful.