Hi, Kat ~
To the best of my knowledge, and I'm not a doctor, the exact cause of acoustic neuroma development is unknown at this time but I have often read that they are
not considered to be hereditary. As the previous posts (and links) demonstrate, that doesn't
completely rule out the
possibility of your sister having an acoustic neuroma, but it makes the chances almost infinitesimal.
NeurofibromatosisType II (NF2) tumors, while also benign, are a different matter as they are at least 50% genetic and grow more aggressively than 'normal' ANs. However the incidence of NF2 in the general population is very low.
While my uneducated guess is that your sister
doesn't have an acoustic neuroma, advising her to have an MRI 'just to be safe', might be a prudent suggestion. Headaches (and even unilateral hearing loss) can be caused by a wide variety of sources. An MRI could find something that might give her doctor a clue as to the source for her debilitating migraine headaches as well as the hearing loss. It just seems like the obvious thing to do. The words
'acoustic neuroma' or
'brain tumor' need never be mentioned - and I wouldn't. Your sister may be avoiding an MRI out of fear that either of these things could be discovered, but if so, the decision is hers to make and you can only advise, suggest and support her.
I hope you enjoy your sail and southern destinations . Any envy you may notice here is purely coincidental.
Jim