Susan,
There are plenty of us around in your age range, I am 56 (55 at the time of my surgery) and there are many more of us in the forum around this age. I agree the AN diagnosis is pretty scary but you've come to the right place for undersatnding and information. Each persons journey is usually pretty different due to size, location and whether or not the AN in question is sticky and therefore stuck ot other nerves (unfortunately if it is it's usually the facial nerve). Soem people have complications butmany, like me, end up pretty lucky to have no complications or nothing too difficult to deal with. I had a minor problem with my eye that cleared up in about a month, a slight balance problem and being SSD (single sided deaf). My balance has improved, but is not 100% but still improving and BAHA (a bone anchored hearing aid) has helped my problem with being SSD. There is life after AN and it is good.
Sharon - Sorry for the hijack - I hope you're feeling better.
Wendy