Hello and welcome, Diane ~
Thanks for posting. As a 'veteran' of successful retrosigmoid approach surgery to debulk a large (4.5 cm) AN I can tell you with confidence that, in almost all cases, things
do get better. I've read many accounts (on these forums) of retro patients who initially suffered with deficits of balance and adjusting to being SSD, not to mention one side of their skull feeling sore, but emerged some weeks or months later with a much better sense of equilibrium and either adjusted to being SSD (and the tinnitus) or obtained a BAHA (Bone Anchored Hearing Aid) to help alleviate the partial deafness .
The key is patience and acceptance of the fact that you've undergone serious surgery and will likely have to make adjustments to the 'new you'. That takes time and determination. I'm sure you'll get to that point before long. We're here to support and help you in any way we can. Our members are eager to do this - for you and
with you. Consider these forums a resource and our members (including me) as family.
Jim