Hi Windy,
sorry you are having problems with your hearing.
My ENT, like yours, is not a specialist in ANs, but a really good ENT - I trust him because he has already saved my hearing twice by reacting promptly. From what he has explained, my understanding is that there are two causes for hearing loss: one is from nerve damage itself, which usually causes a gradual loss and cannot be recovered. The other one is due to some pressure due to swelling or reduced blood flow - this it the type that causes a very sudden loss, but can be recovered if treated promptly by steroids.
I tend to fall in this second category - actually just experienced yet another episode of very sudden hearing loss (meaning going from almost perfect hearing to nothing in less than 24 hours), three days ago. This is my second post-GK, and third overall. Fortunately, I was armed with a "just in case" Prednisone prescription that my good ENT have provided, and started it right away. Within two days, my hearing has already improved considerably.
It is hard to say what has caused your hearing problems, but from what you are saying the reduction was a bit more gradual - if the steroids didn't take care of it right away, I think that you made the right decision not to take them any more. Let's hope that even if it doesn't improve, your hearing will at least stabilize - if you have word recognition left a hearing aid can help. I also found during all these episodes of hearing loss, that even having some hearing, without word recognition helps enormously in terms of directionality.
Best wishes,
Marianna