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I can totally see why you might be having a bad day after talking to the docs at the GK centre. They for sure don't have the best bed side manner, and they will not hesitate to offer you the worse case scenario. They obviously want to be totally sincere with patients and they are also not trying to sell you anything.
So, first of all on the hearing loss issue. Having an AN makes it almost inevitable that you will experience hearing loss at some point. The question is to what extent, and if you will retain any serviceable hearing. This is why the stats are so confusing. Many scientific publications put hearing retention rates to the 50-75% range, but if you look more carefully, they usually refer to retention of "serviceable" hearing. So when the docs say that hearing loss is inevitable, they don't necessarily mean complete SSD (single-side deafness). I had minimal hearing loss going into treatment, and now almost 2 years post-GK I have some additional loss at various frequencies, with about 80% word recognition. So, I fall in the statistic of "hearing loss", although I still retain serviceable hearing and I can hardly notice the difference. I also agree with Steve's statement on the time frame. I am grateful every day for the hearing that I do have (especially given the nature of my work, which would make it very difficult being SSD) although I am also resigned to the fact that I may have additional loss in the future.
Secondly, the long term issue is of course unsettling for everyone. My experience from reading this forum is that it is never over when you have an AN, no matter what type of treatment you have. It is always one thing or the other, could be fear of recurrence, waiting for facial issues to resolve, seeking treatments for headaches, problems from swelling, etc. etc. Unfortunately this is the nature of our condition. So you have to weigh the risk factors, and chose whatever you feel more appropriate for you. Some will tolerate the uncertainety, because they simply cannot afford to go through surgery or they want to avoid life quality issues at the prime of their age. And some cannot tolerate this waiting game, and they want "the thing out" right away. It is a personal decision and reading this forum will demonstrate both points of view very well.
Marianna