Hi and Welcome, better late than never!
Sounds like you are right on top of everything. Now just stay busy and exercise IS good, as much as you can. You will recover so much quicker. And you are young, that helps. I can see you out there playing softball again and soon. Give it a couple of months though! You are experiencing the dizziness stuff now, so it probably won't be as bad once you get JC out and start balance/walking routines. Walking is the best thing to do post op, looking straight ahead, not down.
My AN was complicated, because it had been in there for way too many years (5-10 years too long, I was told), hence all the procedures and surgeries. But surprisingly I had little to no dizziness,balance issues post op because I had already compensated. I had been walking around for years with this vague disequilibrium, light headedness. One doc went on to say I had Meneire's and put me on medicine for that. Which I know I didn't have because I did not have vertigo.
Anyway, as others have said- what to expect post op varies from person to person. Expect to just take it slow and easy, walk, rest, walk, sleep, rest, drink, etc......Calming CD's or books on CD are a great idea. I had post op headaches and EXTREME fatigue. But then I lost blood during the surgery, which is NOT normal. So I was more short of breath and fatigued than anything.
I also had translab and the incision is behind the ear. Other than the small amount of hair that is cut (I had short hair at the time) no one could tell I had brain surgery.
YES it is brain surgery, as Jan mentioned. And it is also equivalent to TBI being that the brain is exposed. So you have to give yourself lots of healing time,and just take it as it comes.
The part of your last post:
I have had a few accuse me of being a "snob" because I don't respond to their questions. Ouch that hurts! The pin is a good idea, but then people look at you and the pin up close and say "what's that?" and you have to explain why you have the pin on, so sometimes it's just easier to say "I'm deaf on my _______side."
I just sound like a broken record --
Dr. Britt Thedinger-that name sounds so familiar! I think he went to Rockhust high school in KC, the all male high school. I went to St. Teresa's Academy in KC, MO the all girl highschool. Looks like he went to KU (go Jayhawks!) I went to KU for nursing school. I remember him being this gorgeous hunk......anyway, hang in there stay busy.
One other thing, I was hoping they would take more "fat" from my abdomen, but it was just a little dent's worth. Darn
Keep up the good positive spirits, everything will be OK!
Maureen