Hi - and welcome, Wasky ~
No one wants an acoustic neuroma but since you've been diagnosed with one and are facing surgery, you've found a very good place to tap into for information and support.
Our members are from all over the country and each brings a distinct point of view based on their experiences. As you're learning, AN removal surgery is complex and definitely carries some risk. Some AN surgery patients do just fine with minimal complications (
Jim raises his hand) others have a few post-op problems that eventually resolve or are surmounted in other ways and a few have ongoing, near-intractable issues. Frankly, there is no 'average' AN patient. We're male and female, in our 20's, 30's, 40's 50's 60's and even older, from all walks of life with tumors that range from almost infinitesimal to
huge (think 8 cm). I was diagnosed at age 63 with a 4.5 cm AN and underwent surgery and radiation with excellent results. I trust that you'll have a similar surgical outcome.
Although I reside in nearby Connecticut (northwestern part of the state) I'm not familiar with the Massachusetts Eye & Ear Infirmary but I've noted some positive comments regarding this institution from other members of the forum. I'm sure they'll be contributing to this thread, soon. Meantime, absorb all the information you can but back off when it gets overwhelming, which it often can.
I wish you a great surgical outcome and look forward to your updates as you seek a doctor that you feel confident about performing the surgery. We're here to support you all the way.
Jim