Hi, Vincent!
Please accept my belated welcome. I'm pleased to note that one of our valued RN members (Cheryl) gave you solid information about the relationship between your diabetes and the surgery as well an accurate and comprehensive overview of the post-op scenario, which, as Cheryl emphasized, varies with each AN surgery patient. I do not have diabetes but I recall the nurses checking my blood sugar levels at least once per day when I was in the ICU. I asked if there was a problem and they said my levels were fine but my neurosurgeon had ordered them to be checked frequently and they were just following his orders. He was a very conservative, thorough doctor and although I hated the tests (not being used to having my fingers jabbed with a needle) I appreciated his attention to detail and prudent approach to my case. For what its worth, my 'Retrosigmoid Approach' debulking surgery went smoothly (9 hours) and I did not suffer facial paralysis or headaches. I had long since lost all hearing in the affected ear so that was never an issue for me. I've adjusted well to being SSD (Single Side Deaf) but if you can't, there are fabulous BAHA (Bone Anchored Hearing Aid) devices available that their users rave about. Should my SSD ever become unbearably burdensome, that's my 'ace in the hole', as it were. It might be for you, too. You never know.
To sum up: you are clearly on top of your situation and although the surgery is always intimidating, with your positive, practical attitude, a very supportive wife and the information and help you've received - and will continue to receive - from these forums, I think you'll do just fine, come Monday (6/21). Besides the advice and good thoughts coming your way, you'll be in the prayers of many, so that should help give you some peace of mind, going in. It did for me. Meanwhile, stay healthy, prepare to rest a lot immediately following the surgery ('immediately' meaning the first few weeks) and remember that - as my fellow moderator, Steve, says - the first 3 days post-op 'don't count'. We'll look for your updates as they become available. Keep thinking positive!
Jim