Hi, Martha,
I would be very curious to hear about your visit to Stanford. Seems not a lot of Bay Area folks are here or simply not going to Stanford? Rave reviews of House clinics though.
Mine is also mostly growing into inner ear and towards cochlea, although no one has called it anything other than vestibular schwannoma, and yes, this is atypical... My hearing on this side has slowly deteriorated, last visit word recognition dropped to 50-ish range, from 80-ish a year prior.
I have been seeing Dr. Blevins for the last couple of years of wait and watch, but last month the conversation progressed to surgery due to some growth.
From what I have read and was told by Dr. Blevins, I should expect a complete loss of hearing post surgery. He and I have not discussed the approach options, but on my own, I am attracted to the idea of middle fossa surgery, with perhaps an unrealistic hope that my result will be "special" and whatever is there now will remain... I am also reading about cochlear implants, it seems that recently there are more done for AN patients than ever before, even though the "nerve is damaged, it won't help" paradigm is still prevailing.
Thanks for anything you are willing to share about Stanford, UCSF, etc - and the options you were given.