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Keri

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an update on my son, deploying to Afghanistan Thursday
« on: February 28, 2011, 07:56:02 am »
Hello,
I've touched on this in other posts, and if you know me on facebook, I've share there as well. This Thursday my son, Scott (USAF Security Forces) deploys to Afghanistan for 6 months. I'd appreciate your prayers. It seems like so recently I was all stressed out when he was going through boot camp (BMT for the Air Force). Back then, a bunch of us moms wondered if our sons would survive that... well, that was nothing in comparison! Well, actually, it is, because it's the beginning of telling them 'goodbye'. But during the whole BMT thing, i remember Nancy mac telling me, 'Your son will be FINE!" and he was. He's done well in the AF and I'm thankful for the positive changes in him.

I know of several military moms on the forum that have been through this. I do pray for our troops, and also the whole difficult situation in that part of the world.

Scott leaves out of Offutt AFB (close to Omaha). He MAY have a layover at BWI (Balimore - right up the road from me) or in Norfolk (Lori - I may be heading your way!!). He will initially be on a charter or commercial airline, not military transport, so i'm HOPING AND PRAYING that I get to see him on his layover in this area.

Thanks for your support!
Keri
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Re: an update on my son, deploying to Afghanistan Thursday
« Reply #1 on: February 28, 2011, 08:02:20 am »
Keri .....

My heart, and many, many prayers go out to you and Scott as he deploys to Afghanistan.  I have two sons (neither in the military) and I can only imagine the stress/anxiety I would feel in your situation.

I sure hope you can figure out a way to see him on his layover!

Many thoughts and many prayers!

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Re: an update on my son, deploying to Afghanistan Thursday
« Reply #2 on: February 28, 2011, 08:57:24 am »
Hey, Keri...I can only imagine what it is like to send a son off to the military, much less to Afghanistan.  I have 2 young adult sons, but neither considered the military, but I often wondered what it would be like if they had.  Not sure if you remember NancyDrew who used to post here often, but her son was in Afghanistan a year or so ago - you may try a search on her and get in contact w/ her for support also.  He got thru just fine! 

Hugs to you and your family,

Cindy
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Re: an update on my son, deploying to Afghanistan Thursday
« Reply #3 on: February 28, 2011, 09:35:53 am »
Keri,

Let me know if you'll be here and I'll either meet you at the airport or we can meet up somewhere else.  They do have a nice USO at Norfolk airport and they take very good care of our heroes. 

I know you can't help but worry, but he will be sent prayers for his safe return from all corners of the world.  If you need any good ideas for care packages, let me know!  And also, when you get his mailing address, send it to me.  Our church sends out care packages too.  We don't have a lot of Air Force personnel around here, so I'm sure it would be new and exciting for the ladies!   ;)

My brother-in-law was at the same place in Afghanistan for 6 months doing security and training also.  Hopefully it will go by quickly.  He'll get through this just fine and so will you!

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Re: an update on my son, deploying to Afghanistan Thursday
« Reply #4 on: February 28, 2011, 10:21:22 am »
Keri~
My heart goes out to you and like everyone else, I can't even imagine.  HOWEVER, I am so thankful to HIM and all the other soldiers - past, present & future - that help me have the life I have!! 

I will pray...

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Re: an update on my son, deploying to Afghanistan Thursday
« Reply #5 on: February 28, 2011, 10:31:44 am »
Keri,
My prayers are with your son and all military people deployed. Hopefully you can keep in contact with him via skype type stuff.
(My hubby was deployed at Camp Eggers with the AF for 6 months before things started heating up there).They keep them safe, you'll see.
Hand in there. Let us know how things go for him ;)
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Re: an update on my son, deploying to Afghanistan Thursday
« Reply #6 on: February 28, 2011, 02:39:05 pm »
Keri,
As you know, I had two sons over in Afganistan..One went twice...So if you ever want to talk, give me a call...I tried to stay away from any form of news while my boys were gone.  I dont know abut the US military, but the canadian one, well they have a family support unit that calls the parents of deployed sons/daugthers just to chat and make sure to answer any questions if we have any.  I will keep you son in my thoughts and prayers. 
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Re: an update on my son, deploying to Afghanistan Thursday
« Reply #7 on: February 28, 2011, 02:57:00 pm »
Keri,

I too want to share in your concerns for the safe return of your son and the rest of our brave and valiant men and women,
who have given so much to all of us with their service! My son and my daughter are former Marines and my husband was in the Army.
They all chose to continue serving by joining the Police force in Oregon! We have lot's of family in harms way on a daily basis and never get accustomed to the worries.
I pray for you and your family and everyone who so unselfishly give their time to serve to keep us free!
Many prayers and blessings to you and yours,
Jackie
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Re: an update on my son, deploying to Afghanistan Thursday
« Reply #8 on: February 28, 2011, 04:11:13 pm »
Keri

First, please know, as a contractor for the USAF, this touches me a lot as many names that deploy are made aware to me..... so with that said, know that I send thoughts, prayers and wishes not just to your son, but to you and the family.  May the "Air-men and women" of this country come home safe and sound, as well as those deployed from all other branches of the US Armed Forces.  

Since your son is Security Forces (trust me, I don't like running into them around base either!), I know he is made of strong stock and that this "wingman" from Hanscom AFB is cheering him on.  I know many at Offutt AFB (as I deal with many daily) and not sure which Directorate/Wing he is with (as it could be ours)..... know that Offutt offers up nothing but the best!  

Hugglez to you... and special wishes to your son.
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Re: an update on my son, deploying to Afghanistan Thursday
« Reply #9 on: February 28, 2011, 04:20:48 pm »
Keri ~

Thanks for updating us on your son's deployment to Afghanistan.  Your anxiety is perfectly normal and whether or not we've have or had a similar experience, those of us who are parents can certainly sympathize with your emotions in this situation.  I do hope you get that meeting with your son and of course, I'll pray for his safety and your peace as your son serves his country in a most honorable way.  Please let Scott know that we're all grateful to him for his service and very much want him to stay safe as he carries out his mission in Afghanistan.  God bless you both.

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Re: an update on my son, deploying to Afghanistan Thursday
« Reply #10 on: February 28, 2011, 05:02:22 pm »
Keri. I hope all goes well for your son and your family.       My husbands nephew is over in Afghanistan and he is on facebook occ.    So good to hear from him that way.         His mom is not on it so I pass along what I see.  She does talk to him but the time between varies.              His funniest post was how he has done this scary thing or that scary thing.    The worse was when a sheep ran at him recently and he let out a scream "like a little girl"         
                        Too many people having to leave the country!                         Cheryl R
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Re: an update on my son, deploying to Afghanistan Thursday
« Reply #11 on: March 01, 2011, 10:28:03 am »
Keri,
I will keep your son in my thoughts and prayers.  My cousin has 18 days left there on his third deployment...the pictures he posts are awesome...but lots of snow.  Chad says the  best thing is getting packages in the mail that he can share.
Hugs,
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Re: an update on my son, deploying to Afghanistan Thursday
« Reply #12 on: March 01, 2011, 07:29:06 pm »
as a mother of a service man who has been deployed , my heart is with you ...

will keep you and your son in my thoughts and prayers ...
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Re: an update on my son, deploying to Afghanistan Thursday
« Reply #13 on: March 02, 2011, 11:10:49 am »
Ker:

I will keep your son in my prayers. I also pray that the longest US was ends.

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Re: an update on my son, deploying to Afghanistan Thursday
« Reply #14 on: March 02, 2011, 02:55:18 pm »
Keri .... prayers for Scott and your family.  Also, big virtual hug for you!

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