Suu,
Here's my answers. LORI will hopefully "jump on the bandwagon" with her answers.
1.
How scary is the first few weeks after having a 12/7 graft?
It wasn't! I had an incision along the side of my neck which they tried to blend in with a skin crease. I was walking and doing my normal business....
2.How long in hospital?
Overnight. They took the drain out of the side of the neck the next morning and sent me home. Depending on the drainage, you may stay an extra day....
3.Is there much pain?
I can't recall much pain at all. This surgery, for me, was THE EASIEST of all my multiple surgeries
4.How long did it take to get any sort of movement?
Umm, some upper cheek movement for me, but basically, and unfortunately I had "marginal" results. My situation is complex though. The facial nerve branches were affected too much with the original tumor......YOU should have better results...
5.Are you ever able to smile with your teeth showing? (big smile)
Probably not. Closed lip is nice though, you get used to it.
6.Can you laugh without looking like some weird act from a circus?
Yes you can laugh and you may still look like a little weird. All about the "new" you.
7.Do the people around you know that you are using your tongue to smile? Is it obvious?
Since I had marginal results, never did get to try that! Sorry....
8.Do the people around you know that you are using your tongue to smile? Is it obvious?
Can't answer that one either.
Good luck with the 12/7! Give it a good 18 months ( I know that sounds forever, but I waited that long) and if the results aren't good, there's always other options....
Maureen