Hi Michelle and welcome to our little club!! I can feel for you, as trying to figure out different options is really stressful! Just know that whatever decision you do make and if it feels right, then it is the RIGHT one! I had middle fossa done by House about a year and a half ago. My conditions were similar to yours, my AN was 8mm and I still had about 70% hearing. So I chose middle fossa over translab (my local doctors here in Phoenix wanted to do that) because of 1. House's reputation and 2. To try to save my hearing. I am happy to report that I did save the hearing, although it's at about 50% now. It's hard to hear clearly out of that ear, but if I wear earphones for music, it's pretty darn passable. I chose to get a BAHA anyways, because it was so hard to hear conversations. So like Jan said, if it was meant to be, it was meant to be. I know if I had totally lost my hearing and I hadn't gone with middle fossa, I might have always in the back of my mind wondered if I should have tried. So that's my story. Like you'll always read on here, each person is unique and will have a different outcome. This was mine, and I hope whatever you decide, you'll be happy with yours! Good luck and let us know how it goes!
Jay