Hi, Ken
Sorry to hear about your diagnosis, but glad you found us. The people here are simply wonderful.
I agree with ilsemor--please get more opinions. A doctor who I talked to at least four neurosurgeons before making a decision, and every one of them suggested something different. At first, I just wanted to go with the first one and get it over with, but then, as the reality of the situation began to sink in, I became a lot more proactive about it all.
The good thing is that, in most cases, you can pick up the phone and talk to a surgeon. I called House Ear Institute shortly after I was diagnosed, left a message, and within 5 minutes, Dr. Brachmann had called me back and talked to me for probably 20 minutes. I mailed him my MRI, and he called back again and discussed specifics with me. The same happened with the other doctors, and none of it cost a penny--at least not up to that point. So shop; be sure you are comfortable with the doc and what he plans to do (as much as you can be comfortable with any of this!)
Generally, the surgeons will ask you to send them copies of your MRI and hearing tests, so it's a good idea to get a stack of those and just keep them handy. Here, at least, I just had to go to the hospital where I had my MRI and ask for copies. They were free, so get three or four copies just in case.
Your surgery isn't scheduled until Aug., so you still have time to shop around.
You were just diagnosed, so give yourself time to come to grips with the idea that you have the tumor at all. I grieved, cried, threw things, and generally just got it all out of my system. Now, thanks to lots of support and lots and lots of research, I'm very calm and not at all nervous about my surgery (in 5 days). Give yourself that time, and ask every question you can think of. It will all help in the long run, and this is all about the long run.
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