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I don't know anything about your medical system up there; long waits sound pretty standard. But, as Jim said I think it was Jim), you can get free consultations pretty easily. At my hospital, patients can get as many cds of the MRI as they want as long as they only get one at a time. See if he can get a copy, and at the same time, ask if he can get more later and if there's a fee.
If they only let him have one copy (or even if they let hiim have lots), you might want to copy the MRI on a disk or on your computer. Then, you can see it, and you can copy it to send to other places if you need to.
I've dealt with House Ear Institute, so I can tell you ow that works. I just literally picked up the phone and called them cold. Told them I'd just been diagnosed and my ENT had suggested I contact them. After being transferred to a "nurses' station" and leaving some information, I thought I'd have a long wait, but within five minutes (honestly) Dr. Brachmann himself called me back. He talked to me for at least 20 minutes, asking when I'd been told by doctors so far and explaining general information about my situation. Then he gave me his address and a more direct phone number and asked me to send him a copy of my audiology report and MRI. I did, and in less than a week, he called again to talk specifics about my case. He talked about problems he saw how the ANs (I have--had--two) were likely to impact my life, etc. I'm sure he'll want to talk about all the problems your bf is having. We talked about surgical approaches (he doesn't like radiation for NF2 tumors) and finally ended our call.
I'm sure you'd get similar treatment; it seems to be the norm when dealing with this, and I have no doubt other places would treat you the same way. Dr. Asthagiri did the same when I joined his study at NIH, but I don't know if he deals with non-NF2 people.
In any case, be aware that someone is going to have to fight for your bf's health if your medical care is anything like ours. Since it doesn't sound like it will be him, we'll pray for you