I have an appointment with Dr. Galfinos in a couple weeks. I know it's not an emergency at this point, but wanted to get more input from a top doc before the holidays and, hopefullly, put it on the back burner for a while and focus on grad school finals and Christmas. They know about my hearing loss, but I haven't told my kids (19 and 24) yet about the tumor. My son is away at college and my daughter lives with her dad, who suffered a massive stroke last year. He's doing well, but I hate having to tell them that their super healthy mom, the one they "never" had to worry about health-wise, has a brain tumor! I figured I'd wait until they were both home before Christmas to tell them together...not the best Christmas present, but hopefully still wait and watch after seeing Dr. Galfinos. I feel like all the hardships I've gone through in my life and the attending life lessons have prepared me for this one; my daughter said about the hearing loss, " Mom, if anyone can handle this it's you."
Anyone have thoughts about consulting with radiation oncologists as well as surgeons? Someone posted about surgeons being biased towards surgery and maybe not giving radiation its due in terms of treatment options.
Thanks all for your comments and support!
Michelle