I had retro, was working from home within a week and 1/2- back at the office in 3 weeks. The recovery will depend on you! The lifting issue is because every time you lift anything your body involuntarily causes you to hold your breath. This increases pressure inside the skull, not advisable after there has been a hole put there. I am 6 months post op and back to my life, by the time they removed my right side AN , it was golf ball sized and growing. I am SSD, but in reality this is only a problem in crowded venues. My left side balance was already compensating so losing my right side balance nerve did not cause much dizziness or balance issues. It is brain surgery and you will feel really zapped for a while, but take it slow and be good to yourself. The sun comes up in the same place the next morning and will wait for you!