Hi, Asha ~
I'm so sorry to learn about your AN regrowth following both surgery and radiation. As you know, I also underwent 'debulking' surgery and radiation (
FSR) for a large (
4.5 cm) tumor so I can empathize with your predicament.
Of course I'm not a doctor but that kind of near-exponential growth on a resected, radiated AN within 5 years must be rare.
I would suggest that you have more than one doctors opinion before agreeing to another AN surgery, especially in light of the fact that the doctor you consulted warned that you would be likely to experience facial paralysis as a result of the second surgery. I would also seek out opinions on the possibility of radiation, although that is probably no longer an option due to (a) the growth of the tumor toward your brain stem and, (b) the fact that you've already undergone radiation treatment in the same area. Obviously, this is a fast-growing AN and I understand that you have to react quickly before making a final decision. It is certainly in your best interest to drop everything and focus on obtaining a second and/or a third doctors opinion before proceeding. That is the only advice I can offer you at this juncture, Asha. Proceed with alacrity but not without a sense of caution and the realization that you may have other options. If not, then be certain the doctor you chose to perform this second AN surgery on you has your complete confidence. Let him know your concerns. That is what I did - and never regretted it.
This is definitely a tough situation and aside from the above suggestions, I can only offer you my prayers for a good outcome to this and, of course, my support and that of our members, who, I suspect, will be adding to this thread, which is why I answered you here instead of privately.
JimP.S. I removed your e-mail address for security reasons - but added you to my contact list.