I appreciate everyone's comments on this issue. It's a tough decision, as you all know.
Twenty months ago, I went back to work, after having been disabled for several years. For a year and a half, I spent what extra money I earned on alternative health care, trying to maximize my strength so that I could keep a job. In January, through no fault of my own, I got laid off. I was fortunate to land a new job within a couple of months, but we have no savings. Given that I'm going to be unemployed again for at least a couple of months (assuming they don't actually fire me tomorrow, when I tell my brand new employer that I have to take a couple of months off), we have to watch every penny we spend.
You would think it would be easier for me to travel to Houston, but our cars are not particularly road-worthy. We would probably have to rent a car each time we drove down there. I realized yesterday that by taking a day off work (I'm hourly) and renting a car to go down there to see Vrabec a couple of times for preliminary appointments, I'd be spending the money that could be put toward the airfare to LA. I'm sure Dr. Vrabec is great, but I have to drive to Houston just to talk to him. The office won't answer any of my questions until I see the doctor, whereas I can call Dr. Slattery to set up a free phone call any time that I need to ask questions. If I actually lived in Houston, it would be a no-brainer to go see Dr. Vrabec, but he is three hours from here, not just a drive across town. Without a road-worthy car, and having to take time off to get there and back, it becomes an expensive trip.
My biggest concern is having the fewest complications and recovering absolutely as quickly as I can get back on my feet. I have to go back to work ASAP or we are in deep DO-DO. This is a pre-existing condition and my disability insurance won't cover it. I have to have the absolute best in medical care. Vrabec may actually be the best, but I don't feel like I can risk the money for the trip, just to find out how I feel about him.
<Very Big Sigh>
Liz