Hi Tim,
I had a 1.2 gram gold weight put in 4 days after translab last Oct. when I had the 12/7 graft done and have had pretty good results so far. I do have facial paralysis on that side however that is getting some better also. My eyelid does close all the way except I can't close AS tightly as good eye, if that makes sense. I tend to get a little soap in it when washing face,,but to look at it closing ,,I don't think you could tell it is not tight,,,
I was told to use drops daily and PM drops at bedtime; however, over the last year I have found I don't need the daytime drops very often at all,but do put them in at nighttime still as it feels good,,,
I had annual dr visit last week and asked about removing it ,, and it was discussed that it is my decision really as to when I feel ready,,,and that I could also have it replaced with a weight half the size,, .6 grams to make it less noticeable ,, which I would like to do but have decided to wait maybe 5-6 more months to see if I have as much improvement perhaps I could do without it instead of having two surgeries,,even though surgery is "minor",,,
So maybe if you have some closure, you could consider the smaller weight and get good results,,
I hope this helps give you some useful info,, if you have more questions,, just ask, best of luck,,Jane