Hi Patty,
Sorry you have a AN. This is a great place for information, and to speak with others who are a little further down the road than you. It is also a place to let out some steam because you can share with people who truly understand what you are going through.
I want to tell you a little about my experience. I also had a small AN, it was on my 8th cranial nerve deep inside near my brain stem. It was wrecking havoc on me, and I was having full spin vertigo attacks 2-4 times a week, it was rather disgusting. I was not in a postion to wait, so I decided to have surgery. The surgeons used the middle fossa approach because I was a good candidate to have my hearing preserved. My hearing is pretty good, and I am grateful for that. They severed my vestibular nerve, and it took me a long time to get my balance back. Unfortunately, after 3 years the balance is not 100%, but I have no regrets. The vertigo attacks eventually went away, but that took almost 2 years to happen. If you decide on surgery, have a look at the middle fossa approach, it might be the best procedure for hearing preservation.
Whatever you decide, I highly recommend to learn as much as you can, so that you can make an infomed decision that you can live with the rest of your life.
God Bless.