Hi, sorry your husband has been through so much already and had such disappointing results..this is a hard enough journey without such uncertainty and confusion,, on top of moving and changing jobs!
I did have translab surgery a little over two years ago. My 2.7 cm tumor was pressing hard on brain stem and had entwined with the facial nerve resulting in it being severed and 4 days after AN surgery I was in surgery again for 12/7 nerve graft. This is done by connecting residual facial nerve (#7) with hypoglossal nerve, that controls tongue(#12),,, a separate surgery that basically cuts from bottom of earlobe area down neck/jaw area to mid neck,, my Dr was able to leave enough facial nerve to connect it " end to end " (as opposed to a splice) resulting in very good recovery response. I did have an eyelid gold weight for two yrs, but had it removed in Oct. and eye is doing very well closing on its own.. Feel free to PM me for more info.
I did not have any radiation and 2 annual MRIs later I am tumor free..long road but I am doing great now.. Best of luck to Mike and you as you continue this arduous journey!
Jane