Hi Rachel,
Since I had a small AN and I still had fairly good hearing in my AN ear, I decided to go with Watch and Wait, and I haven't been on this web-site much, but just noticed your posting about your Swedish experience. Dr. Vermeulen is such a knowledgeable and caring professional, I was confident about speaking highly of her, but am very glad you concur with this assessment.
Please keep us all updated with any status of your husband's treatment. It is always helpful to read about the different situations, as they are all patient specific. I wish him (and you) much success in whatever treatment option you choose.
I think there will be a meeting of the local chapter of the AN society sometime in March, maybe you can check with Barbara Shinn about the date and the location. I certainly encourage you and your husband to attend this meeting, it is such an informative and supportive group and they make you realize that you are not alone.
Good luck and keep us posted!
Rod