I love everything littleowl had to say. I would say my experiences were very similar. I had my surgery (middle fossa as well) on April 16th of this year by Dr. Vrabrec (ENT) and Dr. Trask (Neurosurgeron, who thankfully didn't have much to do in my case) and I could not be happier with the outcome. I am now 6 going on 7 months post op and I feel normal 99% of the time. I often forget about the (now lack of!) AN--which is a GREAT feeling after obsessing over it for nearly 2 years before having surgery. I found out I had an AN just a month after I had my thyroid removed (thyroid cancer) and I was in the middle of pharmacy school, so I decided to wait until I finished school for the surgery. I've been through quite a lot in my 28 short years of life so far--all within a 2 year period.
Anyways, enough "woe is me." I had a great experience for BOTH of my surgeries at Methodist hospital in Houston. Both my thyroid and AN surgeons are with Baylor College of Medicine and absolutely fantastic. I had an 8mm AN on the right side and the surgery took about 8 hours (or so I'm told haha). I was in the ICU for one night (standard procedure) then in a regular room for 3 nights (went home on Easter
) I was walking around with little assistance. I will say when I woke up from surgery it was the dizziest I have ever been in my entire life especially for not even moving--just sitting still. It got better with each passing hour. I was up sitting in a chair for breakfast the next morning after surgery. I have a pretty high pain tolerance and I think the worst part of all of it for me was actually the Lovenox shots---it burned! If that's all I could seriously complain about, then I'm blessed. I had no facial nerve problems and it was nice being chauffeured around for a couple weeks! I, like littleowl, first drove shorter distances. I felt a little better every day. Again, like littleowl, I would say took me about 3.5 weeks before I felt fairly normal and it's only gotten better and better.
Being a woman, I was very concerned about the hair they would have to shave off, but my doctor did a fantastic job and I'm probably in a better boat than men when I think about it because I can cover my scar (which is actually not even that bad!) with hair. The hair around it is growing back mostly, just right where the incision was is hairless, but like I said I can cover with other hair.
I completely agree with littleowl's 3 points. 1) Positive attitude (and some pushy family members to get you moving your head around during your weak times lol) 2) Best possible shape (I did the Insanity workout by Beachbody before surgery and I credit it with my fast recovery because I had a strong core) 3) Experienced AN doctor--mine was absolutely world class. He and his neurosurgeon partner had literally done hundreds of AN surgeries over 10 years together, which I thought was amazing since AN isn't the most common thing in the world.
About a month after surgery I had a hearing test and they preserved most of my hearing. I am obviously so thankful for that. I only lost some higher frequencies. I hardly notice a difference now. At first music especially live in church sounded almost metal like. I am now I guess use to it because it sounds normal again--or maybe a new normal? I only notice a difference when I lay my non AN ear down on the pillow I notice things aren't as crisp sounding or when it's really loud in a room then I definitely favor my non-AN ear.
Best of luck and let us know how you're doing/if you have any questions.