I know that so many people have been through so much more than I have, but I seem to be seeing more and more "wait and watch". I think it is helpful for all the newly-diagnosed AN members to think this whole thing through. It seems that all of the treatments have success stories and challenges. In this society of quick fixes, I guess I just question whether I opted for treatment too soon. I have guided friends and family through medical decisions all my life, but I don't think I sought enough help in my own situation. I tell people not to look back, but I am guilty of doing so.
Thanks to all the AN cheerleaders! I felt I could lean on you in my sad moments!
Yes, you might have been better off waiting. I am waiting, and I may find out some day I would have been better off acting sooner. I am as sure about waiting now and you were about getting treatment. Were you wrong, am I wrong? There is no way to know. All you can do is make the best educated guess you can at the time you make it.
One of the problems with our society these days is all of the second guessing. It's why I am not a cop anymore. In the old days, people understood that decisions are made with the knowledge available at that time. These days, everybody comes along later and cheap-shots every decision. It's why we can't get anything done anymore. Do you think we could have put a man on the Moon 46 years ago with the current mind-set? Everyone would be too worried about the second-guessing that would result if something didn't come out perfect.
You did the best you could with what you had, and, it might just have been the correct decisions anyway.