Michelle,
I have posted on another post of yours but wanted to respond here too.
I agree with Saralynn on # 1 & 2,, about 5-6 months for small movement and started near nose and mouth with tiny tingling feelings.
3) had the 12/7 graft,, Facial nerve to hypoglossalnerve or tongue nerve. I had it done 4 days post op from translab while still in hospital. Didn't have any choice as nerve was severed and Dr. Thought this was best hope to keep facial nerve endings "alive" and best hope for success on down the line.
4) I can't really say what recovery from the graft was like because I was recovering from both surgeries at once! I had cut down side of throat /neck from bottom of ear to below chin but wasn't bothersome hardly noticible now. Some "side effects",, swallowing at first was very difficult, I did bite my tongue quite often, tongue will atrophy due to nerve being cut and tongue not working as it did. In other words, I don't eat food on that side of my mouth so tongue is used to push food to left side of mouth (non AN side) to be chewed and swallowed. It's hard to explain, maybe your Dr can do a better job or PM me and I'll try to elaborate some. But swallowing is better and don't bite side of mouth nearly as much. I do bite side of tongue more than I like to admit if I start eating too quickly. I eat very slowly as I am only eating out of one side of mouth and don't want to get choked.
5) IF your facial nerve is severed, I say do it ASAP BUT if it isn't severed,, I say emphatically WAIT at least 6 months for ANY sign of healing on its own BEFORE a cutting it in two and grafting to another nerve you will have to cut.....but Thats only MY opinion and it's not medically based,,,,,
Good luck and hope this helps some of you trying to decide. Let me know if you have more questions..
Jane