JoeyC,
I was diagnosed just before my 50th birthday on February 12, 2015 and I know how you feel. I had surgery to remove a 2.5 cm AN on March 16, 2015 at Presbyterian Hospital in Charlotte, NC (the neurosurgeon was Dr. Craig A. VanDerVeer, MD and ENT surgeon Dr. Stephen Gold). My sister is an emergency room physician in Charlotte for 25 years and Dr. VanDerVeer came highly recommended.
I had 50% left sided hearing loss for many years. The only other symptom I had--and the one that tipped my primary care physician off--was ringing in my ears prior to diagnosis. Tumor was totally removed (except for a small portion near the brain-stem, it appears!), and I had no health complications whatsoever, but my facial palsy has persisted for 4 months. However, He cut my hearing nerve, therefore, I lost my hearing in my left ear, but I have cross-hearing aides which are such a blessing. So, I had an EMG today (8/11/2015) to determine if I had any facial nerve function and it appears not. My neurosurgeon said that my facial nerve wasn't cut, just stretched out to the point that recover is highly unlikely, therefore, I am going to have a 7-12 anastomosis, which will potentially improve my facial symmetry at rest and hopefully regain some facial movement in the future (approximately 12-18 months). In addition to freeing me of a lopsided smile!
I am sure there are many neurosurgeon that are great, but I know that Dr. Craig A. VanDerVeer does 25 plus AN every year. I did as much research as possible and feel like in this region he is the man. The company that he works for is Carolina NeuroSurgery & Spine Associates and Dr. Steven R. Gold (ENT Surgeon) links are below.
Dr. Craig A. VanDerVeer (Neurosurgeon)
http://www.cnsa.com/physicians/vanderveer.htmlDr. Steven R. Gold (ENT Surgeon)
http://www.ceenta.com/providers/gold/Please let me know if you have any questions I can answer, however, this website is a wealth of information.
I will be praying for your wife.
Chris