Thanks for the input everyone - sorry I haven't posted anything earlier, I have time management issues since returning to work post surgery! Clarice, that was a great suggestion, and I did demo the CROS system for 2 weeks. As I suspected, it just won't be practical to use when I'm working - can't put the stethoscope over the earpieces, and it's ridiculous to keep removing them all day. The audiologist had a BAHA processor on a stiff headband that she placed while I was in her office, and I was surprised how good the sound quality was compared to the CROS even without the abutment. My neurotologist has "given in" about doing an implant, but is insisting on the Ponto - probably because they have a new minimally invasive surgical procedure. Not sure how I feel about it, since none of the audiologists I've spoken to in central Florida seem to know anything about the Ponte, so I have no way to demo it. I don't want to end up with a processor that no one around here can adjust!
So, question #2: for those of you with a Ponto or BAHA, I'm trying to get a good idea of what the differences are in the 2 processors. It looks like with the Ponto you have to have a "streamer" that hangs around your neck to use any wireless accessories or to make setting adjustments with your iPhone, etc., and that the BAHA has direct wireless connection to an iPhone and other accessories. Is that correct? Did any of you have a choice between the 2 before surgery? If so, what were the reasons you chose one system over the other?
Thanks everyone - I have a final appointment with my neurotologist in 2 weeks, and the only surgery day he still had open before the end of the year is December 21. I'm considering looking for another surgeon who is more enthusiastic about the implants, but my time is a bit limited now to get it done before the end of the year. I will be more prompt in letting y'all know how it goes!