Thank you Clarice -
I keep Bose noise-reduction headphones in my purse; I don't grab all the time, but in situations where it's unbearable - it's a knee-jerk reaction (squeaking wheels on carts in the grocery store is a big one!) When triggered, the right side of my face goes numb (all nerve issues from radiation, my dr told me).
Work is stressful, but I try to stay present, & grateful, which helps put everything back in perspective.
A 1-cup coffee in the morning, & green tea early afternoon, but sometimes have chocolate... so maybe this is an "overload".
The mystery is --- why is it worse in fall & spring? Allergist said I may not be "allergic", but there may be "irritants". I was thinking - oh yes, this whole thing is an "irritant". And the fact that sound therapy, & "specialist" not covered under insurance, & I have to drive a distance --- BIG irritant! whoops, there went the stress level. Breathe....
Thank you for taking time to comment, and offer suggestions. We're lucky to have this forum.