Hi GattoMarte -
I did a few posts since surgery but did not reply back to you here -
My retrosig surgery at Keck was great - they got 100% of the tumor. I had very little pain (dull headache for a few days after the steroids wore off); I did have nausea for first 5 days and needed a walker, but was fine after that. My only disappointment is they were not able to save my hearing, but I knew the odds were 50/50 when I chose to have surgery, so I understood it could happen. For me - I am finding that deaf in one ear is not really a problem - my other ear is so good that I thought the AN ear was maybe still working, until we did proper testing.
I took six weeks off from work, and I was very diligent about exercising every day - walking and some cardio. I started back to work last week, no issues except that I didn't exercise those days and I definitely felt more wobbly as a result. I need to get a new routine of walking in the morning, before I get engrossed with my work. Hoping to establish new routine this coming week .... Walking a few miles makes me feel much better all day.
The extended team at Keck are really great. The care at Keck Hospital (nurses, therapists, aides) was top notch. The food - not so much! but I was not hungry there anyway.
My scar is smaller and less scary looking than I expected. I had no issues with infections, incision pain, CSF leaks etc. I did scrupulously follow instructions NOT to bend, NOT to lift; DO wash incision daily, DO sleep propped up; etc.
I was scared of the stories about headaches after retrosig surgery - I am having zero headaches. No neck pain either.
We stayed in an Air BnB apartment while in LA, that was nice- had laundry machines, kitchen, shared barbecue area, a Whole Foods at street level, etc. And we used Uber to get around - was cheaper and easier than rental cars. the Ubers were super clean and the drivers were all interesting to talk to.
Feel free to PM if you would like any further details;
good luck as you W&W !
Sheba