ANER,
At 1.1 cm you have some time. Mine was 1.4 and I elected to have it removed at Keck last week. I hoped they could save my hearing, but I did lose it. However I have no other bad side effects - face is fine, taste is fine, balance is improving with lots of walking. I had no pain really, just taking Advil once or twice a day. My eyes are off a bit (some double vision) but improving with daily exercises. I am glad to know the AN is in the rear view mirror now.
I'm not finding SSD to be so bad, although I slept right through my alarm this morning, with good ear on the pillow - trying to wake early and walk before it gets hot. I'll check out hearing devices after I heal from surgery.
By the way, retrosig has 50/50 chance of saving hearing. Middle fossa odds are better (70/30?) - my tumor was too "medial" (in the CPA) for middle fossa. Docs at Keck can do middle fossa, you may want to ask why they did not recommend it for you.
I decided to take mine out at 1.4 because I did not want to allow it to get bigger and also my health and my insurance today are good. The risk of side effects increases as the tumor size increases.
For the tinnitus - I heard Gingko Biloba helps but only if you take it every day. Someone told me their tinnitus just stopped after 6 mo Gingko, and only returns if they stop taking it. I ordered 6 mo supply and plan to take it daily for a while and see what happens. My tinnitus is not that bad but is loud at times. The person I talked to uses Gingkoba brand so that's what I ordered at drugstore.com, costs $10/month.
Docs are great in Boston as well as in LA (House or Keck).
Wait and watch is also a rational thing to do, supposedly like 50% of tumors sit at same size for years. But if it's growing then personally I think it's better to take it out sooner rather than later. I'm 54 so I didn't want to wait and then find it resujme growing in 5 years or so, when it may be harder to recover from surgery and my insurance may not be so good.
The surgery is quite serious - if you have access to docs doing several a week (not month or year), that's the way to go.
Good luck with your process.