Hi, Crystal,
I also had trans lab AN removal two weeks ago. My hair is about chin length, and you can hardly tell some is missing. It looks a little thinner on the operated side. Of course, in hospital I wasn't using a blow dryer, so it just plain looked dippy, but, so what? I'm just glad to be this side of it. My balance issues were negligible; I guess the tumor had already destroyed the vestibular nerve and my body had already learned to compensate. I feel so blessed. My tumor was about the size of a ping pong ball.
Good things to take along- They let me wear my own pj's after the third day, and that felt good. Take something to hug. Makes wakeful nights feel better. Also, it was nice to have something to tuck under my abdominal incision when I rolled a bit to the side. Otherwise it would sag a bit and pull on the stitches. My kids each donated a favorite stuffed animal
My husband was great, and I know yours will be, too. Remember, he loves you, scars and all. I nursed mine through triple bypass this June, so we now can compare surgeries and scars.
My husband and I enjoy reading aloud to each other. Pick a good book ahead of time and take it with you. He can read to you when you feel like being "sociable" but are not up to talking. Makes it a little less boring for him, too. TV gets old.
Best of luck to you!!!