No matter what you decide it is always going to be a challenge to yourself and do not ever second guess yourself. You subconsciously know what is right and don't what if, cause deep down you know what will make you the most comfortable. However hard it might be.
I would put this out there, facial paralysis vs hearing lose. Only you can chose which one is more important, but like stated above in Don, read multiple posts, you will see why people made the decisions they did. I had to decide either loss hearing or facial. I did not want to be vain, but I just was not prepared to lose all facial movement. Hearing and the body is amazing and you can overcome with the other ear or a hearing aid, facial has additional surgeries to fix and it is never going to be the same....but it will never be wrong whatever and no matter what choice you make.
All decisions are supported and we are here to give you our 2cents, but it is just that, our opinion, we are all different and at different stages of our life, ultimately question: what is going to make you the most comfortable.
Know we are here and will absolutely support you no matter what, and know your decision is right for you! I would ask you to decide what is more important and then which one are you willing to potentially sacrifice?
I lost hearing first so I went with that one, but I have found that the body is an amazing thing and does compensate. I am 4 years since first figuring out something was wrong, I don't really notice the hearing loss anymore.
Please keep us posted on which way you go.
GB