Hi,
Sorry you have joined the club. Glad you found the ANA.
For new patients, there is also the Free New Patient Kit, see the link at the top of the page. It has booklets on key topics (like decision-making) by leading specialist MDs. Highly valuable. If I recall, you just use the link to provide a mailing address and the ANA will send it to you.
Viewing videos by leading physicians as provided in the video library is also highly educational.
It's a very complicated diagnosis, which takes a lot of time to understand. I remember how overwhelming it was to be losing my hearing, have weaker balance, and have worries about my facial nerve symptoms--all while not knowing what to do for treatment.
Start with understanding the basics of the anatomy and the symptoms, and then you'll have a better base of knowledge for discussing treatment options. That's my two cents, I guess.
For me personally, I was so worried about surgery complications or bad outcomes that I wanted to NOT get surgery. But my tumor grew fast and that tipped me away from radiosurgery. So, I looked for the best surgery team I could find. Researching that on this discussion forum was pretty straightforward, and luckily I could travel and my insurance covered my choice.
In the end, I am super happy to be post-surgery with great results from a great team at UCSD. It was the medical team's expertise, for me, that changed everything. That's why everyone here mentions "do your homework" when choosing your treating provider. It's a very difficult surgery. You need extremely capable people to do it, who have a lot of experience, and who can openly share their outcomes with you. It really pays off to ask the right questions, in the end.
Best to you.