Hi Palms,
Sorry to hear your husband is still having a bad time; it does get better. I'm glad to hear his palsy is down from 4-5 to 2-3, I'm still at a 6 on the paralysis scale,( i forgot the name of it, anyway) no movement at all. what I wouldn't give to be at a 4 !!!!
Don't know why he's still getting crusty things at the site almost 5 months out - I'd check with the docs, also re: the headaches. Many people on this site are still dealing with headaches, & are alot farther along post op time than your husband ( & me).
I know what you mean re: 'why did we do this', I felt that way at first, but it had to be dealt with, & if we went the radiation route, you don't know what could have happened there. No sense in second geussing; you never know what shape the facial nerve is in till they get in there, my facial nerve was shot; at least his paralysis IS getting better, it's what I'm praying for.
Best wishes to you & your husband, Nancy