I feel that a doctor dealing with an AN patient should, first, be knowledgeable enough to discuss all possible treatments and their pros and cons, with honesty, not bias. Unfortunately, that kind of unbiased honesty is hard to find as a medical education does not confer sainthood on people. Any doctor denigrating another would turn me off as I find that kind of back-stabbing unethical and unnecessary. I believe that a doctor doing that is simply demonstrating his own immaturity, a lack of self-confidence and a negative attitude that I don't want in someone who is cutting into my skull. But that's just me.
Second: I would like to see doctors dealing with AN patients fully explain the ramifications of surgery and/or radiation, without bias and without scare stories or pie-in-the-sky recovery scenarios.
I was fortunate enough to have a neurosurgeon who was both compassionate and knowledgeable. When I inquired about the House Ear Clinic, he immediately stated that they had a great reputation and seemed to be impressed with the facility. I also inquired about the relatively new endoscopic procedure for removing acoustic neuroma tumors. He seemed interested but stated that he had no knowledge of this procedure - had not even heard of it - and was certainly not qualified to perform it, inferring that if I wanted to go this route, I would have to find another surgeon. However, he didn't appear to be annoyed or flustered by my asking about this procedure. If anything, he was curious about it. Because I needed almost immediate surgery due to my tumor's size and placement, I went ahead with my planned 'retro approach' microsurgery followed by FSR, which went very well. My surgeon warned me that recovery would take months, but it really took weeks. He was elated with my rapid progress and said that he was being conservative when he talked about a months-long recovery and didn't want to set unrealistic expectations. I appreciated that attitude. Basically, both my neurosurgeon and radiologist gave me plenty of time and responded openly to all my questions, as they should have. I was very satisfied with their answers and their skills. I only wish all AN patients had the same positive experience.
Jim