okay so it was my fourth week after translab this week. still a bit tired but didn't stop me from having a few drinks with some buddies, it kinda felt good. Scar is completley healed but still a bit numb around the area with a bit of swelling. My 'shrek' ear has gone back to looking somewhat normal, maybe 95% normal ( a bit to go)...SSD has not been a problem at all, i had lost so much hearing prior to surgery that I got used to it. (for all newbies this is probably a good thing as you mind and body make the gradual transition rather than immediate, yuk that would suck!)
I am having trouble with the facial palsy..I DONT LIKE IT. I used to smile a lot, now not at all. My surgeons 'guaranteed' me, yes that is right 'guarateed' me that it would subside in time as they did not cut it only pealed the tumor from it..but that I have to be very Patient as it won't happen over night...yah right, Justin have patients..not in this lifetime...(and it's gonna be a long one, now...) I am going for my first physio on my face on Monday, not sure what they will do, I can't move the damn left side.. still lubing the eye, hopefully that subsides one day...I guess it has only been 4 weeks...
I have been walking and going out. Tried driving the other day, not bad, gonna wait one more week till I feel a little more comfortable. My wife had been so supportive, I love her so much.
This has been an interesting 'hiccup' in my life. Before surgery is certainly the hardest, no doubt about that, once it is out of you, I have sort of a calm, relaxed feeling. I am alive, who cares about only hearing out of one ear, I can still hear...Don't forget that anyone.
Life throws us hurdels, you just have to be strong to get over them. I am so happy with my decision, granted I have some facial palsy, but if you have a close family and group of friends and a bit of faith (i am by no mean religious at all) you can get through this debacle and they don't see that.
If you are as lucky as me in having a quick recovery, you need to keep yourself very busy, especially if you are not going back to work right away. Boredom is worse than having the surgery...trust me. I can't believe I actually watch "Oprah"...yuk! I haven't got into the soaps yet ( and that WILL NOT HAPPEN), but Oprah, what have I done to myself.
Take care all and we'll keep ya posted..
P.S. anyone experience a 'dry' nose on the AN side...my left nostril is soooooooooooooo dry and chapped...so painful and annoying...is it lacking lube as well...is it the same thing as the tearing?