Boppie,
Thanks for the sugggestions. I printed that out--as I did all of the thread--to take in with me. I broke down the questions into three main topics: qualifications, update, treatment. That way, I can kind of group ideas together in the conversation. I thought if I just started bombarding him with unrelated questions, I would get confused as well. I have organized a folder (with my medical sheet, living will, x-ray reports, questions, and notes from previous meetings all in different little compartements). Maybe that will help. I know when I went in 2000, I was so shook that even though I had a list of questions, I am not sure if I even asked them. In fact, I'll bet the specialist could have told me the sun was purple and I would not have processed correctly and would have just noded my head. I really don't want to do that this time, too. Thanks for your feedback.