Hi Dana,
My first AN I had symptoms of facial numbness:right cheek and around my right eye and major pain and numbness on my tongue, and numbness around gum area on right as well. Balance problems, I didn't notice then much hearing loss. I thought I was crazy for having my tongue have such feelings and felt kind of silly telling a doctor. My AN was 2 cm and was also touching the brainstem.
You need to ask those questions, my biggest fault the first time around was not asking those questions. I just wanted to pretend it would go away. Alot of great information on this site, I have become more enlighted on AN myself for my next dr visit. I had my first surgery March 2004, and only lost minimal hearing and my tongue and face cleared of any weird feelings after surgery. Best wishes for your husband and youself. Please let us know how the doctors visit turns out next week!
Barb